Quick Thought: We Preach Feedback, Then Dodge It

When ChatGPT dropped in November 2022, I jumped in shortly after. I started playing with it, wrote my first post about using it in education by January 2023 (here it is).

A few months later, I was presenting on AI locally and, eventually, across the country—showing teachers how it could actually make their lives easier. Somewhere along the way, I became an AI consultant. I gave about five presentations. After one of them, the head guy pulled me aside and told me I did an excellent job.

Me being me, I asked, “Are you serious or just being nice?”

He said, “I don’t say things I don’t mean. That was excellent.”

That moment stuck with me.

And then… silence.

No more calls. No more opportunities. I reached out—asked if I was fired. They said no. I asked if I needed to fix anything. They said no. I asked for feedback. Nothing.

Same story with job interviews. Get the call. Get told, “We went in another direction.” I ask for feedback, and get told, “You were great, but someone else rose to the top.” I get told, “The other candidate stood out.” No feedback. No real explanation.

And honestly?

It’s ridiculous.

We work in education. We preach feedback. We tell kids and teachers it’s the key to getting better. We build entire evaluation systems around it.

But when it comes time to give real feedback to each other? Crickets. Excuses. Vague compliments and generic rejections.

It’s cowardly. It’s bullshit. And it’s hypocritical.

We owe people better than that.

Especially if we actually believe half the stuff we say about growth, learning, and improvement.

Quick Thought: Rethinking AI With Less Hype, More Meaning

When AI first came out, I was intrigued. I started thinking of ways to use it creatively to help me. Ways to boost engagement. Ways to support learning. I was the guy making presentations with titles like “10 Ways to Use ChatGPT in Class” or “5 Ways to Increase Engagement with AI.” And those were useful—at the time.

But we’re past that now.

AI is here. It’s constantly evolving. It’s inevitable. Students will use it. So I’ve been trying to use it with them—not just for me. I’ve been using MagicSchool to help kids generate ideas, model how to write prompts, and get personalized feedback. I’ve shown them how to paraphrase AI-generated content instead of copying it. I’ve trying to show them to to analyze the content AI spits out. I’ve used Class Companion to give them feedback on writing, hoping they’ll read it and revise.

Some do.

Some don’t.

Some use it to improve. Some copy and paste. Some avoid it entirely and insist on thinking for themselves. Some don’t engage at all. It’s like a mini snapshot of society—some are all-in, some resisting, some just watching.

The real question now is: How do we use AI meaningfully? How do we turn it into a thought partner—not a shortcut?

Here are two ways I’ve started doing that in class:

    Use AI to Practice the Process, Not Just Produce the Product
    One of the most effective ways I’ve used AI in class is to treat it as a starting point, not the final product. I have students use AI to generate a response, then paraphrase it in their own words, critique what’s missing, and decide what they’d keep or change. This process helps them engage with the content, reflect on their own thinking, and develop stronger writing and reasoning skills. Whether it’s analyzing a historical event or building an argument, the focus is always on using AI to support the learning—not replace it.

    Evaluate the Feedback Itself
    One thing I do regularly: students create a slide summarizing their thinking, screenshot it, and upload it to MagicSchool. AI gives feedback, but here’s the key—they don’t just revise based on it. They evaluate it. Was it helpful? Confusing? Did it miss the point entirely? This makes feedback a thinking task. It gives students the power to decide what advice is worth using—and what isn’t. They’re not blindly following directions; they’re making choices. That’s real learning.

    Quick Thought: Reframing Makes the Difference – Change My Mind

    This morning started in chaos. The WiFi was down. I scrambled. I needed something fast, something engaging, something that didn’t rely on the internet—but still moved our learning forward.

    I could’ve defaulted to a worksheet. Basic questions. Called it a day.

    But that’s not really my style.

    I knew today’s goal: students needed to be able to explain the importance of suffrage to the women’s rights movement. So I reframed the whole thing.

    I found the textbook section on the Seneca Falls Convention. Pulled a quick video to provide a visual. And then we did a Sketch and Tell-o using three basic questions pulled from the reading. Nothing flashy. Just layered and intentional.

    But here’s where the shift happened. Before anything else, I put this statement on the board:

    “Suffrage wasn’t that important to the women’s rights movement—it was just one of many demands.” Change my mind.

    I didn’t ask for answers. I didn’t ask for agreement or disagreement. I just planted the idea to frame the entire lesson.

    Reframing like this shifts the role of the student. They’re no longer just receivers of information. They’re investigators. They’re critics. They’re thinking, “How can I change Moler’s mind?”” It forces them to process the content with a lens—to notice not just what’s said, but what’s emphasized, what’s missing, and why it matters.

    By the time we got to the end of class, they weren’t just summarizing facts. They were defending ideas. They were deciding how important suffrage really was—based on what they had just read, watched, and sketched.

    It’s the same content. The same objective. But the task changes the thinking. That’s the power of reframing. And it didn’t require anything fancy.

    Quick Thought: Pedagogy and Relationships

    In a recent interview, I was told:
    “Your pedagogical knowledge is impressive. I haven’t seen anything like it. But we hire people who can build relationships.”

    The comment came from nowhere. I was taken back. The interview wasn’t even over. I didn’t even have time to respond. But since then, I’ve been sitting with it—annoyed, frustrated, and a little fired up.

    Because here’s the truth: pedagogy and relationships are not exclusive. They work together.

    You want to build relationships with students?
    Start with someone who knows what the hell they’re doing when the bell rings.

    Someone who knows how to make the content accessible.
    Someone who knows how to design lessons that let kids shine.
    Someone who knows how to lower stress and raise expectations—at the same time.

    I don’t need chaos to connect with kids. I need consistency.
    And consistent, thoughtful lesson design frees my brain to actually be present.
    To notice who’s having a bad day.
    To check in.
    To make space.

    So yeah, I took that comment personally.
    Because this job demands both.

    Quick Thought: Be the Human in the Loop

    When I was putting together my “Turning Whatever Into Wow” presentation, I kept coming back to one truth: don’t let AI create your lesson. Use it to support your thinking, not replace it.

    You are the human in the loop. You know your students. You know your standards. You know what they need to know and be able to do by the end of a lesson.

    That’s how every lesson should start—with the end in mind. What skill are we building? What misconception are we clearing up? What connection are we hoping they make? Once I know that, then I bring AI into the process—not to do the work for me, but to help sharpen the work I’m already doing.

    AI is powerful, but your thinking still drives everything.

    Quick Thought: Reaction vs. Response

    Teachers are often put in situations where we’re expected to react quickly. And let’s be honest—most of us are pretty reactionary by nature. We think we know how we’d handle a situation, and sometimes we even rehearse those responses in our heads. But when the moment actually happens? It’s never exactly like you imagined.

    Today I was thinking about a student I had who wore a camping bracelet. I didn’t think much of it until I saw him sparking it—yes, like actual sparks. Turns out, it had flint and a small knife hidden in it. In my head, I could hear the imagined reactions of others: panic, write-ups, sending him out immediately, maybe even calling security.

    But instead, I just stood there, and took it in. A few minutes later, I walked back and asked him calmly to tell me what it was. As he explained, I texted the right people behind the scenes. Admin came down, had a quiet conversation, and that was that. The student left. No spectacle. No scene. I never saw him again.

    That moment stuck with me. Because yeah, I could’ve reacted. But I didn’t need to. Not every situation requires a high-stakes response. Sometimes it’s not about how you want to react—it’s about how you need to respond. There’s a difference.

    This isn’t about being passive. It’s about being thoughtful. Teaching is hard, and every kid, every situation, every choice is different. We don’t always have to meet intensity with intensity. Sometimes the best thing you can do is pause, listen, and make your move quietly.

    Shifting the Focus: From Achievement to Growth

    This year has been tough. New school. New curriculum. A constant balancing act between using what I know works and keeping people happy. My students this year are mostly on IEPs or not on track to pass the state ELA test. I’ve spent so much time worrying about whether they’ll pass that I lost sight of something more important—growth.

    That should have been my focus all along.

    I only realized this thanks to my friend Corbin Moore. It hit me that I’ve been measuring success by the wrong metric. Sure, scores matter, but the real victory is in progress—the moments when students engage, when they connect with history, when they improve, even just a little.

    I’m refocusing. Instead of stressing over test results, I’m leaning into what I know works: structured, meaningful learning experiences that meet students where they are and push them forward. If they grow, if they leave my class better than they came in, that’s the win. That’s what matters.

    Rigor Mortis: Why Making Learning Harder Doesn’t Make It Better

    Why do people think rigor only comes from weirdly worded questions with hard vocabulary? Or that multiple pages of reading automatically equate to a challenging learning experience?

    Rigor isn’t just about making things hard—it’s about making learning meaningful.

    I’ve seen a one-page reading with well-designed tasks lead to deeper thinking than a five-page article with a set of dry comprehension questions. The secret? The tasks we ask students to do with the content.

    Instead of throwing long passages at students and calling it rigorous, we should be designing engaging, thought-provoking activities that push them to think critically and apply what they’ve learned. Here are a few ways to shift the focus:

    • 3xPOV or 3xGenre – Instead of just summarizing, have students rewrite the same historical event from three different perspectives or in three different genres (e.g., news article, journal entry, poem). This forces them to deeply engage with the content and consider different viewpoints.
    • Thick Slides – Give students a small piece of reading and have them generate key takeaways, add two images to represent the ideas, and correct a common misconception about the topic. This helps them move beyond surface-level understanding.
    • Sketch & Tell-O – Rather than just answering a comprehension question, students sketch a concept, label key elements, and write a brief explanation. This encourages deeper processing and makes abstract ideas more concrete.

    It’s not about how much they read or how difficult the vocabulary is—it’s about what they do with the information. If we truly want rigor, we have to focus less on making learning harder and more on making it better.

    Things I Wonder

    14 years in.

    I wonder if I can do this the next 20 years.

    Middle. School. Social. Studies. Teacher.

    My goodness.

    I often wonder if I’m doing things in the best way…

    • Am I challenging students enough?
    • Am I meeting everyone’s needs?
    • Do my policies fall in line with school-wide policies?
    • Is it a bad practice that I accept work anytime without a late penalty?
    • Is it bad practice that I let a certain student sleep in class because they need to?
    • Is it bad practice that I don’t keep track of tardies and simply say, “Glad you’re here?”
    • Is it wrong that I hand out candy just because I want to? Should I only save it for a reward?
    • Is it bad practice that I refuse to use a textbook and hodgepodge my own stuff together?
    • Should I fall in line and lecture more? Use more worksheets? Use a more structured way of teaching?
    • I wonder if I’m too far outside the norm, or if the norm just isn’t what’s best for kids.
    • I wonder if I should care more about test scores or if the real success lies in the moments when a kid says, “That actually makes sense now.”
    • I wonder if the things I let slide—like a kid putting their head down because they didn’t sleep the night before—are the things they’ll remember most about my class.
    • I wonder if my flexibility in deadlines is preparing them for the real world or if I’m just making their lives a little easier because I know life is already hard enough.
    • I wonder if some of the things I do that aren’t “best practice” are actually the best practices for the kids in my room.I wonder if the lesson I spent hours planning will even land the way I hope it will—or if the thing they’ll remember is the random conversation about history that had nothing to do with my slides.
    • I wonder if I should stop worrying so much about whether what I do fits into a neat little box and just keep focusing on what works.

    Because at the end of the day, I wonder if the real question isn’t “Am I doing this the right way?” but instead “Am I doing right by my students?”

    And as long as the answer is yes, I think I’ll keep going.

    When Learning Feels Like a Heavy Lift

    Sometimes, I get so caught up in trying to create the best learning experience possible that I hit a wall. My brain just shuts down, or I avoid the process altogether because the thought of planning one more lesson feels like too much.

    But today, I had a thought.

    I often turn on CBS Sunday Morning or scroll through random YouTube videos, not because I have to, but because I genuinely enjoy learning. Some topics pull me in, while others? Not so much. And that’s okay.

    It reminded me that learning experiences don’t always have to be grand. Not every lesson needs to be a game-changer. Not every student will be interested in every topic. And that’s normal.

    What matters is that we create opportunities for curiosity—moments where students can choose to engage, explore, and connect with ideas. Some days, it might be an elaborate activity. Other days, it might just be introducing a thought, a question, or a story and letting it sit.

    Big or small, learning still happens.